It happens to a lot of people that when they are talking to women, they often just go blank. An awkward silence follow that really disrupts the conversation and ends any chance that you may have had with the woman. Men are baffled all the time regarding how to talk to women.
This problem is such that requires a good and acceptable answer since if you are not able to talk to women, you are probably not going to be able to do anything else with them as well. I did a lot of online research to come up with good answers to this question. Here are some of my findings.
Building rapport – As long as you are able to build rapport with a woman, you do not have to worry about the conversation part of it. Once you build rapport, you come off as a friend of hers. And because of this, you do not have to worry about talking to her because she will start talking to you.
All you have to do now is listen and she will feel as if the sboth of you are having a real great conversation. There are multiple techniques to build rapport. Some of the best ones are mirroring and reading her.
Reading her body language – Reading a woman is the best thing you can do to improve the conversation that you are having. Let me explain more about it. Imagine how easy it would be to converse with her if you knew what was going on inside that head of hers.
Well, reading her body language helps you with that thing precisely. Now you do not have to worry about saying something inappropriate or you will know the correct time to say something inappropriate if you know what I mean.
However, reading her body language requires information about the female specific gestures and a little bit of understanding of the female psychology. Make sure that you read about this because it is a bit complicated and you will require quite some time to learn about it. However, once you possess the knowledge about a female’s body language, you will literally be invincible with women.
Avoid pecking – This is one of the biggest mistakes men make subconsciously that turn a woman off. Pecking means that you lean in front when you have to say something and you lean back when it is her chance to speak.
This gesture usually conveys that you are not interested in what a woman is saying even though you may be. To avoid this, pick a sitting position and stick to it. You don’t have to lean forward or lean back. You can just sit straight. But avoid this at all costs.
Be genuinely interested in what a woman is talking about – The problem is that the same way in which you can read a woman’s body language, she can read your body language too. Because of that, she will know when you are not interested in what she is talking about. Not being interested in what she is talking about makes her feel insulted and you will have a much harder time with her.
It also kills rapport and you can forget about anything happening with this particular woman.It is important to be genuinely interested in what she is talking about even if you are not interested in the topic. Failure to do this can be spotted easily and you will not be able to cover up for it no matter what you do. So take great care of this. You may want to learn the gestures of being bored and try to avoid them in order to make her believe that you are interested. The only thing worse than not being interested is being interested but not showing it properly.
Be humorous – Being humorous may seem difficult at first but it really is not. All you need to do is make her laugh. It is surprising how many men struggle with the simple task of making a woman laugh. Just keep in mind that there are things that you do which kill humour.
A good example of this would be laughing hard at your own jokes or making jokes that are just not funny. Another mistake you can do is crack jokes too often.Take care of these things. Also, remember that a sense of humour can be developed and you can develop it too. Try watching a funny television series for instance or write your own jokes.
These were some tips on talking to girls. Just remember that when you do talk to girls, you always need to have a plan beforehand. The more common reason why men go blank during a conversation with a woman is the fact that they rush in without a plan. Keep a plan in hand and include all these tips in your plan.